Today was a silent day. Praise Jesus. While I love my ParaYoga family, I miss my mornings of solidarity. When even greetings of the day are unnecessary. Oddly enough, coming on retreat has seemed, at times, more stimulating than being home. Although I am not forced to engage in conversation, it seems odd to walk around not responding to people. There are certainly times I wish I could wear a name tag that reads HI. My name is SILENCE.
Here is what I’ve learned –
That I get ‘pulled into’ chit chat even when I don’t really want to be chit chatting.
I am easily swayed.
By nature, I am a participator.
I do have a genuine interest in people, especially those I love. However, all things being equal, most of the time, I can just as easily not talk to them.
There’s a LOT of noise out there.
Most of all, I’ve learned I LOVE not talking. I’m talking ADORE it. However, this is only a 36-hour mandate. I wonder if I would still feel this way after 72 hours or a whole week. I think I would still love the peace that silence and consistent contemplation brings.
Without words, hugs became bigger and more meaningful. Smiles more engaging. And the thoughts of loved ones more directed and potent. I sent prayers and thoughts across oceans and truly believe the recipients felt my love.
Silence is powerful. More powerful than words ever can be.
February 25, 2016 at 4:27 pm
hi jen. i am loving every word of every your intimate “done” blogs. i feel like i’m reading your “eat, pray, love” journal. so raw and honest.
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February 28, 2016 at 8:23 am
thank you dear. sending love and shakti from india.
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March 1, 2016 at 6:29 am
I totally relate. There are many times I love being by myself in silence. I’m sitting on your couch typing this. In silence. Sending silent happy vibes across the ocean! (PS: Writing is a form of speaking, no? Write on!)
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March 2, 2016 at 6:11 am
I told you it was nice and quiet. 🙂 I do miss the joint but know it’s in good care. xx
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